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The
Greatest Law - 1 Corinthians 8: 1-13
Jan 30, 2000
What will you be doing this afternoon? Will you go for a nice long walk,
to a movie, talk with a friend, listen to favorite radio show, go shopping
great
day to shop crowds low. Are you having a Super Bowl party or going to
one? Will you watch the football game today because you are a big football
fan or will you watch it so you will be able to talk intelligently about
the big play tomorrow morning with friends or at work? Maybe you are like
me. I will record the game and fast forward through it so I can watch
the commercials.
Did you know that Super Bowl Sunday is the day when Americans consume
the second largest amount of food during the year? Thanksgiving is the
only day when we eat more food.
Food, Food, food! Party, party, party. Who do you invite to your parties?
What do you serve at your parties? Did you know those might be more than
simple questions? They might be ethical questions.
Ethical questions. Questions of right and wrong, good and bad. Back in
the early days of the church what food you served was an ethical question.
Who do you influence? Parents influence their children, children influence
their parents. Friends influence friends and strangers influence strangers.
A moment ago I asked if you were watching the game this afternoon because
you were a fan or because it was something you had better do to be part
of the crew or to be able to talk about it tomorrow. That is influence
and being influenced. Commercials are a form of influence, but this product
over that one, buy this item even though you may not NEED it
But back to the question: What do you serve at the party this afternoon?
Will you serve alcohol? Will you serve alcohol if you have a friend who
is an alcoholic and is trying to stay sober?
On one of the TV morning shows the other day they had a famous chef on
talking about what to serve for the big party. Apparently they had people
vote on-line to choose their favorite recipe. They will have a pre-game
show showing you how to cook this wonderful treat. The 2nd favorite was
garlic meatballs made with 1/3 PORK, 1/3 beef, 1/3 veal all swimming in
a natural gravy. Would you serve garlic meatballs swimming in natural
greasy gravy if someone at the party was allergic to garlic? How about
if someone was recovering from by-pass surgery? Would you serve 1/3 pork
meatballs if Jewish friends were coming over? Serve veal to animal rights
activist?
The question is How does a Christian participate in society and
the world in a way that builds up and does not tempt or destroy?
How do we throw a party, a super bowl feast that does not contradict
our participation in the Lords Supper? Inclusive welcoming, graceful.
Back to the Question Who do you influence? Your life is an example to
lots of folks. If you like to drink alcohol and there is someone in your
family who is alcoholic what is the loving thing to do? Can we say You
know, that is their battle. I support them but you cant expect me
to give up drinking what I like just for them.
Or if someone is trying to lose weight and we keep bringing tempting
treats into the house, is that supportive?
Trivial Tempest in a tea pot. Food and drink are such small things. The
Christian faith teaches that it is not what goes into a person that is
sin, but what comes out of a person. So the issue is not to eat or not
to eat, there is a bigger issue. The question is not do I drink or not
drink. The ethical question of what you will serve at your party today
is so much bigger than that.
At issue is the question: Will I exercise my liberty at the expense
of the well being of another. Lets frame it more clearly. Will I
do what I want if it will cause one of Gods children to stumble
and fall? Will I place stumbling blocks, no matter how small, in front
of someone for whom Christ died? Will I insist on doing things my way
if it might tempt lead or in any way another away from God? Away from
healing health, wholeness and peace?
Christianity is sometimes seen as a major pain, a huge burden because
it INSISTS that we live love. Love. Later in this same letter, I Corinthians,
Paul talks about love and he writes, Love does not insist on its
own way
love is patient and kind. Many folks in our day and
age use love as a bludgeon, a tool to get what we want when we want it.
We what we want. If you dont give me what I want you are not
loving. It is enough to make your head spin trying to figure out
what is really loving and what is manipulation. Love or coercion?
Here are a couple of guidelines Paul uses to help define what is loving
and what is not.
1. Love builds up. Love makes stronger. Love lifts up the weak.
2. Love takes precedence over our liberty or rights. What is safe for
one is not safe for another. No one who calls themselves Christian has
the RIGHT to indulge in a pleasure or liberty that would bring ruin to
another. Nothing wrong with drinking alcohol UNLESS in exercising our
rights and pleasures it causes another to stumble and move away from God.
To exercise our rights and liberty at the expense of another becomes a
sin; a thing that divides us and others from God.
3. Love moves us away from temptation and hurt and toward strength and
peace and healing.
4. Love is responsible for strengthening the weak link, slowest vehicle
5. When all is said and done Love is a constructive force that is empowered
by God. If we say words, do deeds that demean or put down another that
is not of Gods spirit. Hurt, fear, anger are not Gods tools
of love. God will that we heal and align.
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